Friday, February 26, 2010

Nathanael to change the avatar on Facebook

For little Nathanael to change the icon of facebook.
My message to Nathanael Tan : The 3 headed dragon is not good and suitable for little christian boys! Please use something cuter like Nemo, Winnie the Pooh. This is what I want to explain:

My 8 year old nephew used a 3 headed green dragon icon for his facebook profile. I would like him to change to something cuter, like Nemo, Winnie the Pooh, Bugs Bunny, Mickey Mouse and many others that I displayed here.

I believe an icon represents a person , just like a person's name. Many parents would take a lot of effort to name their new-born baby carefully , some also consulted astrologers before names are given to their children.

Thus an icon represents someone or some places, like Sydney Opera House represents Australia, the London Bridge for England, the Statute of Liberty the United States and the
"Durian" ,our Esplanade represents Singapore.
Before anyone jumps into any conclusion that I am being superstitious, and fussy, let me relate to you what is happening around us.

Example 1 :  Many churches in Singapore will not encourage their members to read the Harry Potter Books series, because of its many references to witches, curses and other strange , weird spiritual stories mentioned in the books.

Example 2 : One pastor from my mum's church in Pasir Panjang also discouraged the members' usage of the toy "Pokeman" many years ago.

Many of the modern and new age toys are so gross and so gaudy ,they are so ugly and unattractive, some of them look so evil and so devilish, not a bit child-like. Why do people would buy for their children toys like Superman, Transformer, and many devilish looking toys!

What had happened to all the cute childhood toys that we had, such as Snoopy, cute little girls, and puppies.?  I don't remember much about childhood toys because we did not have much toys then, we only played with plants and ran along drains and in the open fields. So simple, so available yet so natural ! No strange toys, no dragons, no monsters!   

One last thought, why I won't use a dragon icon. In the Bible , the dragon is portrayed as the devil, Satan, the fallen angel who rebelled against God Almighty. If you are familiar with the Bible, read the book of Revelations.

So do not use any picture of dragon for all yours works or artworks for your home or leisure. Do use something simple and beautiful like those shown here:



Bye, Nathaneael, may you be like a cute boy for now ,like this little penguin.

Be  a blessed child.

SINGAPORE LOW BIRTH RATE--MY COMMENTS-- voted one for the 5 best answers

QUESTION BY YAHOO ANSWER , Singapore
Should we also “turn off the lights” to help boost Singapore’s low birth rate?
South Korea's health ministry, which is charged with boosting the nation's low birthrate, is turning off the lights in its offices once a month to encourage staff to go home early and make more babies. The ministry said in a statement Wednesday the switches will be flicked at 7.30 pm every third Wednesday in the month to "help staff get dedicated to childbirth and upbringing".

Singapore is facing a similar situation and the government is looking to encourage more matchmaking companies to be formed.

Is this another solution for Singapore’s low birth rate and why?
20 Jan 2010

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My Answer: ( voted one of the top 5 best answer) submission was under pen name of "Surprised

Frankly no. Solving the low birth rate can't be so simple. Who can ensure that the early time off from work will bring everyone home to do what the government plans for them to do?

Solving the low birth rate problem is not so straightforward.

I feel the government has, to date, not fully succeeded because they are only trying to solve this matter as a piecemeal issue and not as a integration of many other problems that ought to be solved concurrently and simultaneously to bring about the desired goal of a higher birth rate.

What the government is currently doing should be enlarged and refined.

Firstly, reduce stress in work further. Follow the South Korean on the early time -off from work but expand on their idea.

This idea can be expanded further by giving pay leave for couples to go away on some weekends using chalets on a subsided basis . This will allow both couples to be more physically relaxed and would prepare their state of mind for what they have to do .

Procreation is a creation of a new life, how can it be achieved in such a rush? Let them slow down for their emotions to gear up for the passion of procreation.Then the success rate of a new baby is higher.

Next, whilst the government understands the high cost in prenatal preparations for both mother and the unborn child, they can do more.

This suggestion may seem petty and trivial but every little help counts, Ok?

Help them with some incentives like free gynaecologist check-up, free supplements of milk and vitamins, and even a small allowance for their preparatory needs of a new child arrival.

Thirdly, the incentives and rewards given to the new parents to raise another child is not attractive and conducive enough. Whilst it presently do help parents , the duration for these assistance is too short.

Why only help the child up to a certain age, why not longer? Why not up to junior college level?

I understand other richer countries give every child a sum of money until 18 years old. The child also gets free education for many years and even their tertiary education heavily subsided( only 10% of school fees to be paid)

Understandably, when doing future financial planning, and if they have to provide for the high cost for their child 's future education, parents will tend to take the easy way out to solve their decision-making , i e not to have any more babies. The less children, the less financial worry, right?

If the government is willing to help with this problem , it may unplug some of the reservations of some couples to decide on having another baby.

Another thing the govenment should look into, is to ensure that the housing needs of a larger family be addressed.

Now most of the housing flats are mainly 3 bedrooms or less. The impression given to family is to to have less children, not more, because there is no plan for the third child to be housed.

In line with government 's aim for larger family , the housing board should start to build 4 bedrooms apartment, so that the perception on lack of space and room for additional child will never be a turn-off for a potential new birth.

These are only some of the possible things the Government can look into depth and analyse carefully before they implements it, if found suitable.

We are now a well to do country. Use part of this wealth to invest into the demograpy of the country before it reaches a point of no return where couples are too exhausted and turn -off with too many unsolved child -raising issues .

The Fallen Miss Singapore Ris Low and her recurring appearance in the media

QUESTION BY YAHOO ANSWER, Singapore

Ris Low . Enough of her already or you want more ? And why ?  20 Jan 2010
The following is my comments and was voted as Best Answer
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 (link :http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnFe3sYrS.yMrL9mZRRwPhT54gt.;_ylv=3?qid=20100118101532AAFNJ5h&show=7#profile-info-c5cde7974e0f32c898ebe3f50f6f5d04aa )   -- submission was under the pen name of "Surprised"


My comments:

I think it is best for everybody to stop reporting the whole issue of Ris Low immediately.

1.  If you were Ris Low , you would read all these posted comments and criticisms . Sadly to say, they are mostly hate-mails than encouragements. How long does she want herself to be bashed up with these negative comments again and again and again?

Does she not has any pride? Does she enjoy all these negative feelings of herself??

2.  Why does the media use her numerous times to generate more news and public sentiments for themselves? In short , the media use her negatively and she was used negatively knowingly or unknowingly.

Doesn't the media realise ,by now , and understands the feelings of the general public and what the public wants?

Is the media so insensitive to poach on this subject time and again?

There are so many important and pressing life and death issues to report about that are happening around us . Why waste your time and resources on her so many times?

Who cares about her plans when compared to so such sufferings of so many people and children in this world?????

So many people are dying in the world and suffering so greatly. Spend some time watching CNN and BBC, even CNA and you will see many peoples struggling in their countries facing terrorisms, floods, extreme cold weather , bankruptcy,fatal accidents and of course, the latest , the shocking and sudden earthquake in Haiti which leaves so many local residents without food and water or roof over their head for several days.

Ris Low's future plan and her failure suddenly becomes so minute and insignificant.

It is time for the media to step back and re-focus their perspective .

It is better for the media to report on those current news that brings out our compassion that spurs us to some action of some kinds like giving donations rather than to report on such petty news that stir up our resentment more and more.

I beg you, media ,Ok, please no more on Ris Low , her life or her future plan.

She can go on her life quietly with whoever she wants or with whoever wants her or her story or her experience.

Please !!!!!! no more of her, I am going to pass out from negative feelings that is generating within me!!!!!